Communication Key To Helping Children Deal With DeathPOSTED: 3:42 p.m. EST February 27, 2003 PITTSBURGH -- Fred Rogers taught his young viewers that
death was something to be talked about. It shouldn't be any
different now that Mister Rogers is gone.
The group that produced "Mister Rogers' Neighborhood," Family
Communications Inc., is telling parents not to shy away from their
children's questions in the wake of Rogers' death. A pioneer in
children's television, Rogers, 74, died in Pittsburgh early
Thursday after a bout with stomach cancer.
"As Mister Rogers always said, 'Whatever is mentionable can be
more manageable.' Crying, feeling sad, that's part of being
human," said Hedda Sharapan, an associate producer with the show,
which has continued to broadcast repeats since the final new
episode aired in August 2001.
The people who created the show say parents need to be aware
that every child will experience the news of Rogers' death in his
or her own way. It's important, they said, that parents ask how
their children feel about it and listen to what they say.
"If you only say, 'He was sick and died,' children may worry
that you or they might die, too, when you're 'sick' -- with the flu
or a cold," the group said on its Web site.
Some children may not believe Rogers is dead because they just
saw him on television. In this case, parents may want to explain
that when people die they cannot come back to life, "but Mister
Rogers put his programs on videotape so they can be shown over and
over again," the Web site said.
Rogers faced the subject of death on his show. On one program,
he discussed the death of a fallen bird; another dealt with the
death of one of his goldfish.
For more information, click here to check Mr. Rogers' Web site. Copyright 2003 by ThePittsburghChannel. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed. The Associated Press contributed to this report. | Pictures In The NewsWTAE-TV Pittsburgh on Facebook
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